Your sex life is supposed to be about pleasure and intimacy, but as many of us know, it can also be a source of anxiety and self-consciousness. It doesn't have to be this way! The solution is simple: Try these tips for making sex less stressful and more enjoyable!
1. Get to know your body.
If you want to have hours of sex, it helps to know what your body likes and dislikes before you begin. The best way to do this is by masturbating regularly. Masturbation is absolutely crucial in determining your pleasure zones, what you like and prefer in sex, and learning more about and feeling more connected to your body as a whole.
2. Use more foreplay
If you're concerned about your partner's satisfaction, increasing or adding foreplay is a good strategy. Another strategy is to change sex positions to ones they prefer. This is especially true for heterosexual couples because men and women take different amounts of time to complete tasks.
3. Try edging
Edging can help you last longer in bed, though it may take some practice to get it right. What is edging? It’s when you get very close to ejaculation but then stop until the feeling has passed. These pauses can calm things down and make your sex session last longer.
4. Bring sex toys into the bedroom
If you and your partner don't finish at the same time, you can use toys they enjoy to fill the gap. There are so many types of sex toys to choose from—you can use a vibrator during sex or foreplay to help your partner get to their sweet spot before intercourse.
5. Masturbate before sex
This is a bit of a balancing act, but it can be done. Try masturbating about half an hour before sex so you’re not too worked up before it starts, but still give yourself time to become excited and enjoy sex.
That's all, I hope you found this blog super helpful. I hope you have a great evening/day!