Ultimate Beginner's Guide: How to Use Vaginal Toys

Ultimate Beginner's Guide: How to Use Vaginal Toys

How to Use Vaginal Toys?

Vaginal toys are love toys designed to stimulate the vagina. It’s used mostly by people with vulvas, but some toys can also work for couple play.

As vaginal toys are used to please the vaginal walls, a-spot, g-spot, and cervix, most toys have vibrating features. Some also have heating, rotating, or thrusting features for enhanced sensations.


Below are the different sex toys:

  1. Classic Vibrator

Classic vibrators are the most basic, fuss-free type of vibrator you can get. Generally, they are cylindrical and straightforward in terms of design.

They are great for use all over the body, whether it be on the breast, vagina or any other body parts that you enjoy stimulating.


How to use it:

  1. Apply a water-based lubricant to the toy’s shaft.
  2. Gently insert the classic vibrator into your vagina.
  3. Turn on the power button and enjoy the vibrations!

You can also point the tip of the classic vibrator to your g-spot for more targeted stimulation.

Mini G-Spot Bullet Vibrator


  1. G-Spot Vibrators

G-spot vibrators are created to stimulate the… of course the G-spot!

They are large enough to put inside you and a lot of them have curved shafts to make rocking back and fort on the toy easier.

The curve of these types of vibrators works really well with the thrusting motions coming from behind and they are best used for g-spot stimulation.

They are not the best when it comes to partnered penetrative vaginal sex because it’s pretty hard to fit fingers, let alone a penis, when a vibrator is already occupying the space.

How to use it:

  1. Apply a water-based lubricant to the toy’s shaft and tip.
  2. Get into comfortable position – preferably lying down on your back.
  3. Gently insert the vibrator.
  4. REMEMBER: G-spot is located 2-3 inches deep into your upper vaginal wall.

You can only feel the g-spot when fully relaxed and aroused since the g-spot is part of the internal clitoral network. So before playing with your g-spot vibrator, set yourself in the mood with visual and audio cues.

  1. Once toy’s inserted and the curved tip is pointing to your g-spot, turn the vibrator on. You can also move the toy back and forth for more pleasure.
Clitoris G Spot Sucking Vibrator


  1. Realistic Dildos

Realistic dildos are non-motorized phallic toys made to resemble a real-life penis. You can choose from circumcised to uncircumcised varieties that can range in shapes, sizes, colors and curves.

A strong suction cup is usually found on its base, that you could attach it to walls, floors, bedframes and other smooth surfaces for hand-free riding. It can be use vaginally or anally depending on their size and what you’re comfortable with. Just make sure that the base is securely attached on the surface you’ve chosen.

How to use it:

  1. Lie down on your back and open your legs wide.
  2. Apply lube generously to the dong.
  3. Gently insert the dildo.
  4. Move back and forth until you reach the sweet sweet O.
Huge Realistic Dildo


  1. Vibrating Dildos

Vibrating dildos are those that have a vibrating function. They are still designed to resemble a penis, but can be much less intimidating to some people.

Some vibrating dildo designs will resemble a rabbit vibrators, while others may be more reminiscent of classic vibrators. They still have suction cup bases, because it’s easy to get carried away with the intensity of the stimulation on this type of sex toy.

These toys aren’t best for stimulating other parts of the body, but they are great masturbation tool that allow you to combine another toy to the session or use your hands to nip, tug, and arouse other erogenous zones.

How to use it:

  1. Apply water-based lube on the shaft
  2. Gently insert
  3. Turn on the vibration

Bonus: Use a clitoral toy, apply lube on the toy’s tip and rub it on your clit.

Telescopic Thrusting Vibrating Dildo, Brown


  1. Glass Dildos

Glass Dildos are sex toys made mainly from glass. Some are colored or cleared, textured or smooth, curved or straight. Glass dildos are great for temperature play because they hold heat and cold very well.

You can try keeping your dildo inside the refrigerator to experiment with your sexual responses to cold. Or you can warm the toy between your hands to get the glass dildo to your body temperature and making it enter a bit more comfortable. You can also soak it in warm water before playtime to test your heat tolerance.

How to use it:

  1. Apply lube liberally to the toy’s shaft. (You can use any type of lube, but it’s best to go with silicone-based or water-based lube)
  2. Get comfortable and gently insert the glass dildo into your vagina (Just like a regular dildo)
  3. Move the toy back and forth to feel further stimulation.
  4. You can chill or heat the glass dildo (follow your dildo’s instruction)
Crystal Glass Dildo


  1. Love Eggs

Love eggs are egg-shaped or teardrop-shaped sex toys that are made to be used while inserted into your intimate parts.

These are some of the most popular sex toys for vagina, because of their powerful vibrations and discretion. They can be used for g-spot or vaginal stimulation.

They are perfect for discreet partner plays as they usually come with a remote control that can be used from a distance.

How to use it:

  1. Apply water-based lubricant to the love egg.
  2. Insert the egg vibrator and turn on the vibrations. (Love eggs are usually 2-4 inches in length, so they can fully stimulate your g-spot, however, you can’t use it for deep vaginal penetration)
  3. Use the included remote control or the love egg’s controls to change vibration modes.
Remote Control Bullet Egg Vibrator


  1. Kegel Balls

Kegel balls, a.k.a. Ben Wa Balls, have been in use for centuries. They are used to strengthen vaginal and pelvic wall muscles which allow for better bladder control and sexual experiences.

Kegel balls come in a variety of weights and sizes to help you work out your muscles with a series of clenching and unclenching motions. Balls are inserted in order to be used. The workout offers you sexual pleasure which is why they are sometimes called love balls or even pleasure balls. They come with a ‘tail’ that hangs out of the vagina for easy extraction.

Be wary of overexertion though, as these are not meant to stay in the body for more than half an hour at a time.

How to use it:

There are two ways to use a kegel or ben wa ball.

  1. For strengthening your pelvic floor muscles. You need to learn about the kegel exercise first.
    1. Apply water-based lubricant.
    2. Insert it to the vagina.
  • Do your kegel exercise as usual.
  1. For pleasure purposes.
    1. Apply water-based lubricant.
    2. Insert it to the vagina.
  • Masturbate while wearing it.
Kegel Exerciser Vibration Kegel Balls Tightening Pelvic Floor Exercise with App



  1. Strap-on

Strap-on sex toys are dildos that can wear with a harness. Some dildos and harnesses are sold together, but there are also individual options available.

You can mix and match dildos and harnesses depending on your needs and most dildos are compatible with a wide variety of harnesses.

Strap on dildos allow people with no penises to penetrate or sometimes, allow people to penetrate the vagina and anus at the same time – called double penetration. Strap-ons can also be used to penetrate the anus – called pegging.

Harnesses are usually made to fit around the waist or around the area where the penis would be, or some are created to fit around the head, foot, chin and other body parts.

How to use it:

  1. The on that penetrates, must wear the strap that holds the dildo in. (wear it as instructed)
Apply lube liberally to the dildo and gently insert it into your partner’s vagina or anus.
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